Laying down tools for a bit!

A recent favorite book. I’m mad about movies!

By Caitlin Kelly

I started writing this blog on July 1, 2009.

I was convinced no one would ever find it or read it or comment. Happily, I was wrong — WordPress tells me 22,000+ people have followed it and my daily stats show people arriving from across the globe, a real compliment.

I also write for a living, so the 2,315 posts I’ve so far published here have been in addition to producing dozens of paid/published articles and a book, Malled: My Unintentional Career in Retail.

It’s very weird to…not write. For probably every writer, it’s how we process the world and how we feel about our time in it.

Our tools are simple enough — a device, our hands, our eyes/ears/brain, access to the Internet (not easy for many!)

But I’ve spent the past week not working for income but focused on a book proposal I’ve been trying to revive for a few years, about women and journalism. I’m being vague until/unless it sells. Writing a book proposal is a lot of unpaid work, done in the hope you will actually find an agent and a publisher and get paid enough to make it worth doing. Each step offers its own challenges — having an agent sounds so glamorous but I have been bitterly disappointed by quite a few, even Big Name New York ones.

Like dating, it’s a combination of intellectual and emotional fit — and knowing your agent will do their very best for you. Both of my books faced 25 rejections each before finally selling and today publishing is so much more consolidated it’s even more daunting for the mid-list crowd like me.

Two friends — within a week — including one who works for a major publisher recently urged me to write a memoir. So I bought a book on how to do that and might start writing bits and pieces. It’s tricky for every memoirist with family dramas and unresolved issues. (Likely everyone!)

My husband, Jose, is a photographer and photo editor, working freelance for the USGA and The New York Times; he’s also my transcriptionist! I never learned to touch type, as he did, so I bang everything out with only two weary fingers. At the usual $1/recorded minute one pays a transcriptionist, I at least owe him lunch!

So I’ll enjoy the next week or so, as many of you — I hope! — will as well: eating, napping, watching movies and fun TV, taking walks. Reconnecting with yourself and those you love, ideally at home!

Wishing you all a great Hanukah, Christmas, Kwanzaa!

11 thoughts on “Laying down tools for a bit!

  1. Good luck with the proposal. Believe me, I know how you feel. It’s a slog trying to find a home for your hard work. I sometimes think dating would be easier!
    Also, I think it would be cool if you wrote a memoir. Hope you’ll let us know if you do end up writing one.

  2. Jan Jasper

    Caitlin, I can totally see you writing a memoir! You have had so many unusual experiences, including but not limited to family drama…Your wide travels, and all the places you’ve lived and worked. Also, because of your insight, a memoir from you would be particularly interesting

  3. best of luck with your upcoming proposal. knowing a bit about your life from your blogs, i think your memoir would be so interesting to read. enjoy your break away from work – happy holidays to you and jose.

  4. A “two weary fingers” writer! Wow, I thought I had challenges with my writings and blog and you’ve been knocking out pieces, literally, pen to paper! I hope you write your memoir, your stories are great!

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