My best-ever breakup happened on the Rue de Rivoli in Paris with my ex-beau, the bald American antique dealer ten years my senior, chasing me down that elegant street shouting. The worst might be the night I came home from Salt Lake City (depressing enough) and my then-husband grandly announced: “I’m leaving.”
At 10:00 pm on a Wednesday night? Leaving to go where? Oh, out of the marriage.
Now, as The Wall Street Journal so helpfully points out, with graphs and everything!, people are breaking up by instant message — 14 percent of those born after 1984, versus only three percent born before 1975.
Bloody little brutes!
Thirty percent of the younger crowd are fine dumping someone by telephone — versus 16 percent of the older folks. (The man who did that to me at 4:30 during my workday does have a special spot in hell.)
Less than half — 47 percent — of young un’s will actually break up with someone face to face, versus the 74 percent of those of us willing to do it in the same room, maybe better prepared to handle whatever emotional mayhem may ensue.
An analysis of 10,000 Facebook breakups that offered this data also offered the following reasons:
30 to 32 percent for “other”; 25 to 28 percent “lost interest”, 18-22 percent because their partner cheated, 16 to 21 percent because of distance and only (well, whew!) 3 to 4 percent because their parents or friends disapproved of their partner.
Have you been dumped by email or IM or phone?
Better or worse than in person?
If you’re doing the dumping, will you man up enough to do it face to face?
- How men break-up (holykaw.alltop.com)
- When is the Best Time to Break Up With Someone? Facebook Stats Say Spring Break (socialtimes.com)